Am i being 2 harsh? friend help!!?

I use to have a friend who did similar things, i.e. the shouting, being pushing, involving boyfriend. The fact is if this is something that happens often you need to not put up with it anymore. A true friend wouldn't yell at you for trying to help, and would be there for you when you needed to talk. Also, she should be willing to hear you out in order to further your friendship, but instead she is pushing the issues away and not dealing with them. It sounds like she is also doing this with her boyfriend and vice verse. I would tell her how you feel and if she ignores it and thinks you making a big deal out of nothing, then tell her you don't want to be friends. Either she will come to you in a few days saying sorry and making it work or you have one less selfish, ignorant, and childish friend to put up with.