How would you feel if this happened to your child or family member?

That is a bullshit excuse! I have a friend who was abused all his life and his mother was the exact same way. He was born addicted to drugs and everything. But he didn't turn out that way. I don't care what enviroment you came from it does not give you the excuse to act like an animal. If that were my daughter i'd ask for his life in return. People grow up in shitty homes all the time but they dont act like that.