Monday, November 7, 2011
How do you tell your fraternity brothers that you are confused about your uality?
If you live in the fraternity house and have any room mates, how do you think that they would react? How do you think the brothers that you are closest to would react? How do the other fraternity brothers view gay people? You say you're confused about your uality, but I think that you know which way you lean and your confusion is not about your uality but is confusion about coming to terms with it. If you are attending college in a larger city, you can find other gay people without having to tell your brothers about it, but it may be more difficult in a smaller town. I began to come to terms with me being gay when I was in college and living in a fraternity house, so I know what you are feeling firsthand. For now, I wouldn't tell them. I had a brother come out and it didn't work out well for him; he transferred to another college and it pushed me into more denial of what my ual attraction was until I had left college.
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